When Life Feels Out of Control: Finding Peace in the Middle of Anxiety
We all experience anxiety at times, but what can we do about it?
Understanding anxiety and what is causing us to feel anxious is important to getting a handle on it. Anxiety is rooted in fear. A few examples include fear of current conditions, fear of the future, and fear of “what-if “scenarios. The question to ask yourself is, “What am I feeling anxious about?” Anxiety can be rooted in a desire to control a situation that seems out of control or something that is beyond our ability to control. Is it reasonable to expect yourself to control a situation that is not controllable? In other words, if something is not under your control, should you be anxious about it?
Making Space for Sadness: Why Feeling It Is Part of Healing
Sadness is one of the most misunderstood emotions we see in counseling—especially among Christians who deeply value hope, gratitude, and faith. Many people quietly believe that if they feel sad, they are failing spiritually or emotionally.
In reality, sadness is not a weakness—it is information.