Did You Know We Have Perpetual Problems in Marriage?

The truth is, when I fly alone, I do it my way, and there are no problems. When my wife flies alone, she does it her way, and there are no problems. But when we fly together?
Welcome to marriage and the world of ‘perpetual problems.’”

Perpetual problems are differences in habits, preferences, and values that challenge every married couple. They aren’t just little quirks — they’re deeply rooted parts of who we are. And the key is not to “win” or “fix” these problems, but to manage them with understanding and compassion.

When two people come from different backgrounds, with different experiences and emotional histories, they will inevitably see the world — and how to live in it — differently. One may see spending as a sign of love and joy, while the other sees saving as a way to protect and provide. Neither is wrong.