Life’s challenges can leave you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure where to turn. But there is hope.

I’ve spent over 20 years walking alongside individuals, couples, and families, helping them find clarity, connection, and peace.

As a pastoring elder in New Jersey, I’ve taught, discipled, and provided pre-marital, marital, and pastoral counseling to those in my church and beyond. This experience has shaped my approach to counseling—compassionate, faith-centered, and deeply personal.

In 2016, I earned my MA in Mental Health Counseling from Alliance Graduate School of Counseling, where I was honored with the "Excellence in Clinical Skills" Award. Now a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in New Jersey, I combine pastoral wisdom and clinical expertise to help my clients navigate life’s complexities with hope and purpose.

Outside of counseling, my passion for music, teaching, and speaking gives me a unique perspective on connecting with people, inspiring growth, and fostering healing. My wife Mickie and I call Rockaway, NJ, home. We’ve raised four amazing daughters and have five grandchildren who motivate and inspire me daily.

How I Help You

Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, I’m here to help. My counseling services are tailored to meet your unique needs and include:

  • Marriage and Relationship Counseling:
    As a Prepare Enrich Trainer, I use proven methods to help strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and find joy in your relationship.

  • Individual Therapy:
    Address anxiety, depression, stress, or spiritual challenges with personalized support rooted in faith.

  • Family Support:
    Navigate life transitions and challenges while building stronger family connections.

Together, we’ll work to uncover solutions, renew your perspective, and help you move forward with confidence.

The Transformation You Can Expect

Imagine your life with:

  • A deeper connection with your spouse and loved ones.

  • Clarity and resilience to handle life’s challenges.

  • Peace of mind rooted in emotional and spiritual balance.

  • A renewed sense of purpose and direction in your journey.

With faith-based, compassionate counseling, these outcomes are possible.

Take the Next Step Toward Healing

You don’t have to face these struggles alone. Take the first step toward a brighter future today:

  • Call or text: 201-444-8103 ext. 15

  • Email: gerard.dematteo@lightthewaycounseling.com

Let’s work together to uncover hope, healing, and renewal for you and your relationships.

Don’t wait—start your journey today.

My areas of specialty and focus are:

  • Anxiety

  • Depression

  • Grief and Loss

  • Pre-Marital Counseling using PREPARE/ENRICH

  • Marital Counseling

  • Christian Counseling

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