Getting Through MayCember and Embracing the Beautiful Mess of June: A Message for Exhausted Parents
If you’re raising kids, chances are you’ve come across the word “MayCember”—a witty blend of May and December. And honestly? It makes total sense. May can feel every bit as hectic, overwhelming, and emotional as the winter holidays—just without the sparkle of holiday décor or the comfort of festive drinks to ease the stress.
By the time June arrives, you’re doing more than your usual routine—you’re managing an avalanche of end-of-year events: field trips, music shows, dance recitals, classroom celebrations, sports banquets, and graduation ceremonies. It’s a joyful whirlwind, but a whirlwind nonetheless.
Why May Feels Like a Sprint with No Finish Line
May tends to come in like a storm. Everything seems to climax at once—final assignments, school shows, appreciation days for teachers, and the final games of the season. Your planner is maxed out, your stamina is low, and practically every message from the school starts off with: “We know this is a busy season, but…”
The urge to “savor it all” can feel like a heavy weight. You want to be there for all of your child’s special moments—but showing up with a latte in hand and your hair tossed in a bun totally counts. There’s no award for doing it all flawlessly—just for showing up with love.
And Then June Arrives...
June comes with a fresh wave of emotions. Even the smallest of graduations—yes, preschool included—can tug hard at your heart. Watching your child cross a stage or wave goodbye from a doorway can suddenly make time feel like it’s racing. You’re proud, you’re reflective, and sometimes a little heartbroken as each chapter closes.
On top of that, there’s the puzzle of shifting into summer mode: sorting out camp plans, family vacations, and gearing up for long stretches of time with your kids—often without much downtime for yourself. On top of that, there’s the puzzle of shifting into summer mode: sorting out camp plans, family vacations, and gearing up for long stretches of time with your kids—often without much downtime for yourself..
A Few Gentle Reminders to Keep You Going
If you’re caught in the middle of the mayhem right now, here are a few soft truths to hold onto:
It’s okay to be overwhelmed. Feeling stretched doesn’t mean you’re unappreciative or missing the beauty—it just means you’re human.
You’re not required to do everything. Declining another volunteer opportunity or passing on a picture-perfect moment is valid if it helps preserve your peace.
Release the need to make it all magical. Many of the sweetest memories come from the quiet, simple, messy bits.
Feel all the feelings. Whether you tear up at pre-K graduation or grumble about baking your fifth batch of cupcakes, it’s all part of it.
Acknowledge your little victories. From remembering that field trip form to making it out the door on time—those count.
One Final Note
You’re not going through this alone. Behind every overstuffed minivan at pickup is another parent trying to manage an overflowing schedule, tender emotions, and the happy-sad moments that come with watching their children grow.
Yes, May and June might challenge your energy, patience, and sleep—but they also offer up irreplaceable moments: pride in your child’s journey, bonds with others in your community, and even giggles amid the madness.
So, inhale deeply. You’re doing a lot better than you give yourself credit for.
